1 APRIL 2020

Just like in the movies

By Zah, Community Manager, Singapore

It’s only a few months into the year, but 2020 has been unprecedented for every one of us.

For many of us, the thought of empty shelves in the supermarkets and the sight of closed shops and empty public spaces feel like something you’d only see in the movies. But today, that has become our new reality.

Some days the world feels almost apocalyptic, as news of rising infections all around the world and climbing death tolls envelop us.

But on some days, I see more of the good in this world, even amidst the chaos. I see fellow neighbours raising their hands to offer their services to help those quarantined at home with shopping for groceries. I see parents packing care packs for the other frontliners we sometimes forget – our teachers. I see strangers taking a moment to share appreciation for our cleaners, who work hard to keep us safe. I see hope and love thriving even in these times.

And even as this pandemic spreads, I’m choosing to see the light amidst the darkness, the kindness in humankind. Because years later, after we get through this, that’s the kind of things that we should make movies of.

_{Photo by Zahirah Taha}

Pink bread in black times

By Nhi, Digital Project Manager, Vietnam

Everyone can see that this pandemic has driven the disruption of society and the economy. In some parts of Vietnam, people make a living only by growing tropical fruits, but they have been in trouble with exporting goods since it happened.

In February, ABC Bakery - a famous local brand, had the idea of using dragonfruit juice instead of pure water to make bread and cakes, so that they can help consume a huge amount of unsold produce. They used red dragonfruits together with other ingredients to make pink baguettes. The moment I saw many people queuing in front of the bakeries, I also wanted to try. Not only because of my curiosity, but I also wanted to express my thanks to the chef and contribute to support our country. It was more than what I expected, with a nice taste and beautiful colour.

I do believe that everyone is feeling the same. I'm a bread-addicted person and I could feel that the piece I held in my hands was made from people's kindness. 

I don't think this pandemic period is all bad. It is a chance for us to realise that although life is harsh, we can also feel what love really means through these warm-hearted actions. We don't need to do much, a small effort done with love also works.

Friends on the frontline

By Olivia, Assistant Producer, Singapore

During the initial outbreak of the virus in Singapore, we saw healthcare workers being discriminated due to their proximity to patients who tested positive for the coronavirus.

I have a best friend who is a nurse at a polyclinic. During one of our dinner gatherings as a group, we asked Hui Ying how she was handling her job during this period. She is someone who is very particular about her own hygiene, as well as others. She shared that not only did she take extra care of her own hygiene during work, she would remind her colleagues to remember their own during the pandemic.

That night, she shared in-depth details about what she does as a nurse and I learnt more about healthcare workers and their responsibilities than in all the time I've known her. They really risk their own health and are selfless. I am glad that many Singaporeans have started to appreciate them. They are truly the heroes during the season of COVID-19!

As I have a few acquaintances who are nurses on Instagram, I now leave them direct messages or comments just to show my appreciation and encourage them! The photo above is of my friend! When I first saw it online, I immediately shared this post - I am so proud to have a friend who is a nurse and what she is doing right now!

_{Photo by Yunming Wang on Unsplash}

Hope and triumph over the storm

By Rebecca, Head, Singapore

COVID-19 has taken my world by storm. I must say, I have had my fair share of fear, hope and confusion. I have been trying to make sense and process all that has happened and what continues to unfold. One belief that has kept me anchored – that love can triumph over the darkest of times. And that the human spirit should not be underestimated. Hope will not disappoint, when the love we have for one another, beyond ourselves is showing up in more ways than ever.  I really believe that we can get through this together, stronger.

Through a series of random connections, over the last two days, I got to hear first-hand of one such story of hope. With the sudden announcement of a lockdown in Malaysia, many who were on daily commute to Singapore for work from Johor, Malaysia were left without a place to stay in Singapore and some resorted to sleeping in public spaces. Some said, “This is heart-breaking. Let’s help them find places to stay.” Others said, “I have a place where they can come stay.”

One such place was Transit Point @ Margaret Drive. In a stroke of serendipity, it had just opened a week before the lockdown announcement, as a shelter for the homeless in Singapore. Volunteers from all walks of life sprang into action – some reached out to those on the streets, others prepared the space to house over 50 of them and many took turns to come cook for them. Donations of mattresses, lockers, daily necessities flowed in, much more than they ever expected.

Needs were met, anxiety was calmed, hope was restored when people cared enough to step forward to give in ways that mattered. It is precisely acts of compassion like these, that will bring us closer and stronger together – and these will be what will give us triumph over the storm.

_{Photo by Jametlene Reskp on Unsplash}

Creativity in crisis. Connection amidst isolation.

By Mai, Community Lead, Singapore

I am a Filipino living in Singapore. For the past week since Luzon went on lockdown, I have been worried about the situation back home. I rage against feeling unable to do anything to help so I went on the messaging apps to check in with my friends and family. Slowly, they started sharing with me things people are doing to help.

A virtual concert to raise money to take care of the most vulnerable in this pandemic. A group of filmmakers made their short films available online where we pay by donating to healthcare workers, the poor and the elderly. The simultaneous praying of the rosary together at 9pm. A security guard spraying alcohol in the hands of passers-by because it’s the least he can do.

I too must do what I can, where I am, with what I have.

A COVID-19 time for introspection

By Waye, Development Producer, Singapore

Many have lamented the detrimental impact of social media, but imagine a world without it during these pandemic times. When 'self-quarantines, 'lockdowns', and 'stay-at-home notices' are commonplace. And even though 'social distancing' is something introverts like myself enjoy, being isolated from people for days can make even a loner a little, well, lonely.

As evident from the outpouring of uplifting stories online that celebrate humanity and humankind, social media has built new communities, kept communities together and united people across disparate communities.

Stories of compassion, hope, kindness, resilience, courage, fragility, strength. Each eliciting a range of emotions and making us stop to reflect. More importantly, they might have motivated us to become better people; to estranged friends and family members, to backstabbing colleagues, to neighbours we barely glance at in the lift every morning, to the homeless uncle with his entire life shoved into a couple of bags, to the auntie clearing our plates at the food court, or to taxi drivers that insist on taking the longest route.

COVID-19, you've turned our world upside down, torn families apart and pushed us beyond our comfort zones. But amidst the destruction, you've also thrown us a lifeline, albeit in the cruelest of circumstances. You've shined a light on the indomitable human spirit and shown us what we've taken for granted for too long - our environment and the living creatures that we share each life-giving breath.

Our internal universe will have irrevocably changed when you finally take your leave. We will not be the same - our relationships to planet and people, our hearts and minds. But yet, at the crux of it, I hope we will have finally seen that we ARE in fact the same - all equally vulnerable in the face of disaster. And in its wake, all equally together.

Burger surprise

By Chris, Content Lead, Singapore

A few months back, when Singapore first raised its outbreak response status from yellow to orange, there was a climate of fear and anxiety going around our nation. 

That night, I went to NTUC FairPrice, a local supermarket to try and buy a drink. But the queues were incredibly long due to people rushing to stock up on essential items. I found out that this had been going on all day, everywhere in Singapore.

As I turned around to leave, I saw this lady come in with a bag of McDonald's burgers. She gave that bag to the cashiers, who had been working frantically all day, telling them, "Hey guys, this is for you. You've been working so long and so hard today. I want to say 'thank you', and give you something to eat." 

In a day that was dark with worry for so many of us, this lady shined a light on how we can care for those who are helping to care for us. It showed us how when we come together as a community, we can be strong and kind for everyone.

_{Photo by Lin Yanqin}

No lockdown on common decency

By Yanqin, Producer, Singapore

Earlier this month, before travel restrictions kicked in for Singaporeans, I took a long-planned holiday to a remote part of Indonesia. I walked through silent airports and sat on empty planes. I passed shuttered shopfronts and stilled streets. And on the last day of my stay, when I asked if it was OK to keep my room for a more few hours, my host said: “Stay as long as you like. There are no more guests.”

We often frame travel in the form of escape – getting away from it all, taking a break from the daily grind, finding that secret getaway. With COVID-19, there is no getting away.

I’m realising how a silent world can be a devastating one. Communities that depend on the flow of people and goods moving through the world are hard hit. We have created systems highly dependent on an economy of capitalist values, and we are learning how fragile it all is.

Despite their uncertain prospects, my hosts never faltered in making sure we got home safe. From tapping their contacts to secure ferry tickets for us so that we could catch our flight home, to taking the precaution of getting us clearance from the health ministry office to travel within the country, to boarding our ferry with us to make sure our luggage had been safely stored – they never stopped taking us care of us. We were their guests, and they would see us through.

Albert Camus wrote that “the only means of fighting a plague is common decency.” I was privileged to experience the kindness of strangers before I entered this new normal of social distancing and lockdowns. Let’s work to make sure decency doesn’t become a distant memory, and find new ways to bring it into everyone’s lives.

We are all the same

By Lilian, Associate Producer, Singapore

It's as if we woke up one day, and the world changed. 

Daily reports on rising death tolls, countries closing their borders, and social distancing has become the new norm. 

The world in unison is experiencing grief, panic, and worry. This new way of life is very different from a couple months ago, when we were connected. 

More than a pandemic, it hits closest to home when you feel the loss in your heart. And it did. That was when I started looking for fresh perspectives to shed light on this situation. 

People stepping up to take care of the vulnerable and needy, community-led initiatives to provide hand sanitisers and masks, saying 'thank you' to healthcare workers and transport drivers, lending a helping hand to businesses and gig economy workers, providing lodging for stranded Malaysians during their country's lockdown and taking care of them as our own simply because we are all the same. 

Rays of light provide hope in the situation. And solidarity comfort, in this time of crisis. I have never seen humanity so united. And it reminds me that - we are all the same. Humans, in need of and being capable of kindness towards one another. 

No matter what each individual is going through - grief, loss or simply trying to stay afloat, do know that you are not alone. And we can overcome this, together.

_{Photo by Lilian Tan}

Humour, a temporary cure for a pandemic

By Eelin, Distribution Lead, Singapore

"Let's put a deadline on COVID!" - a joke we made at a meeting in the early days of the situation. The absurdity triggered laughter and a surge of gungho optimism lingered.

In the past few weeks, most of the notifications on my phone have been news updates about the pandemic. Necessary, but dreary. The other messages were still about the virus, but were a lighter take on the situation. So, jokes about toilet paper hoarding (but not sanitary napkins or diapers), COVID-adapted songs, handwashing dances and fun facts, like how the princess in the animated film Tangled was locked away in a castle named Corona!

Humour is often culturally tinted. But the barriers have been removed with this pandemic. Toilet paper has emerged as collective amusement for all. Someone said, "Every survival kit should include a sense of humour." For once, we can laugh at a common enemy. But, of course, from a safe distance of one to two metres.

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And in the end, hand in hand we will get there

By Shawn, Producer, Singapore

It was day four of working from home and just before settling the kids in for the night, I was watching the latest COVID-19 music video by Phua Chu Kang (a Singaporean comic character) and my four-year-old son caught sight of it and joined me. He found it amusing and kept laughing at the “funny uncle” singing and dancing. After the video ended, he had quite a few questions: “Daddy, why the uncle tell us to wash our hands?", “Why he say use our brain?”

“Why got virus and bad germs outside?”

Spotting a teachable moment, I was excited to share the real-world problem with him (of course at a level a four-year-old can understand) in the hope of seeding a thought of being resilient in trying situations like now. Just as I was about to start, the next video started to play and it was the 2019 National Day Parade theme song, Our Singapore. He was familiar with that song because he celebrated National Day in school, last year. 

As I continued to watched, the lyrics sounded like a pep talk and reminder to me. 

Look where we are, we've come so far
And there's still a long, long way to go
With all of my heart, I will care
I'll play my part, I will share
With family and friends, together we'll stand
And in the end, hand in hand
We will get there

After watching the videos, a comforting sense of hope stirred within me. That night as I tucked my son into bed, I told him that tomorrow is a new day and we can be brave and strong together with everyone. He replied, “And we need to use our brain.”

I guess the music video worked. 

Although the National Day song is titled Our Singapore, I think it is very much an anthem for humankind during this trying period. 

We will get there, everyone!

_{Photo by Lina Trochez on Unsplash}

Finding an invincible summer

By Anita, Producer, Singapore

Lockdowns. Panic. Endless streams of news tickers bearing more distressing reports. Supermarket shelves stripped bare of essentials. Loo rolls suddenly qualifying as some sort of critically endangered species.

No, I do not like this mad new world at all.

Some days, it is hard not to feel like we are all helpless extras, wandering around the set of an apocalyptic film titled, Nature Strikes Back.

Every day, I tell myself to be grateful. I have arms! Legs! Food on the table. My loved ones and friends are healthy and safe. And I find myself returning to moments like this one.

My then five-year-old son and I are standing before my grandmother’s beloved plants, quietly taking in the joyous explosion of life. Fuchsia blossoms lift their heads above jade-green leaves; jasmine buds reflect the light-like stars. The mere sight both delights and calms the spirit.

My grandmother was blessed with an extraordinary green thumb. She would spend hours in the garden tending to her charges with pruning shears and watering can, coaxing even the most withered of shrubs to resurrect and bear fruit.

Her labour of love reminds me of new beginnings. Of everyday faith and resilience. That no matter how hard the world pushes against us, we can still find strength. Hope. And an invincible summer that glows within us.

So let us stay strong. Let us stay kind to one another. And let us hold fast to hope: Because hope is medicine, too.

A choice to be better

By Eileen, Digital Marketing Executive, Singapore

So, what now?

The COVID-19 situation has left us feeling all sorts of ways. These are trying times indeed, and a true test of our spirits.

Stories of our everyday heroes stepping up to help us get through these difficult times – be it packing care packs for the needy to writing thank-you notes to our frontline workers – it is an assurance, that we are not alone in this fight, and a reminder, that we can pull through this crisis when we choose to rally together.

In the face of uncertainty, fear and panic, may we all remember that no matter how much our human instinct is telling us to put ourselves first, that we can do so much more when we make the choice to be kinder, more compassionate, and to look after each other. We can, and we must, choose to be better.

_{Photo by Eileen Chee}

The 14-day 'quarantine care pack'

By Sharon L, Community Architect, Singapore

As a Malaysian living in Singapore, I'm well taken care by a government who's applauded for how well it has handled the pandemic.

Yet, things aren’t looking rosy for my family in Malaysia. With the sudden lockdown on March 18, family members who commute to Singapore daily had to make a choice: stay home with the family or forgo two weeks of salary.

My Burmese friend Bamang, who happened to be in town for work, was devastated to find out two days before his return, that all Myanmar nationals returning to the country would be put up in ‘makeshift quarantine centres’. It was Bamang’s first trip overseas.

“There’s no way my brother is losing his job!” “Why should my friend be put up in a hospital instead of going home?”

I was frustrated, and even angry.

As I vented on social media, stories of companies hosting their Malaysian employees in hotels showed up on my feed. Friends were sharing posts of people offering their homes for those who are stranded. My previously panic-stricken brother had been offered a two-week free hotel stay by his employer.

Meanwhile, a group chat was swiftly created to put together a 14-day ‘quarantine care pack’ for Bamang. In less than 12 hours, he was ready for his unforeseen quarantine order – equipped with a first-aid kit, toiletries for two weeks, snacks, handwritten notes and entertainment ideas (which include a 14-day workout plan for flat abs).

It’s human instinct for people to choose self-preservation over compassion. But everywhere, people are going out of their way to help one another – even if they themselves are afraid. While the pandemic had brought out the worst in people, it has brought out another side of humankind we had longed to see – kindness and compassion.

Translating fear to hope

By Poh Khim, User Experience Specialist, Singapore

Amidst the news about COVID-19, I have witnessed people lending a helping hand to each other in Vietnam. Being a Singaporean working temporarily in Vietnam, it was the first time I felt that kindness came in all sizes, across different platforms.

As a foreigner, it can be daunting staying in a country not knowing when the Government might announce a new rule or law in a time like this that could affect you. But, while I was feeling uncertain about the situation, a lady in an online expatriate group started offering to translate for foreigners at any time of the day (even in the middle of the night) – in case anyone had trouble explaining themselves to the Vietnamese authorities.

People have also started ground-up initiatives to deliver food and other items, such as bedding, books or games to people under quarantine. For instance, a kid donated all the red packets (lucky money) collected during Tet (Lunar New Year) to buy masks for people in need.

It’s really heartening to witness how people in Vietnam are willing to help each other in times like these. We will get through this together.

1 APRIL 2020

Love in survival mode

By Edrida, Writer, Indonesia

This March is survival month but full of love as my family and I journey through this lockdown. Due to the virus, my invitation to the Asian Global Women conference in Malaysia got cancelled, and I was asked by Parliament House (where I work in Public Relations) to work from home for two weeks. I decided to use this time to establish a routine and to do all the things I’ve put on hold. Such as writing my mum’s biography — she has been a single parent since my father passed away sixteen years ago — I now have more time to communicate with my mother who lives in another city. I also have more time for my pregnant third sister who works as a specialist in Obstetrics and Gynaecology in a public hospital. She shares health tips and I try to decrease her stress by sharing humorous stories and poetry. She is grateful for the support especially since it is a hectic time for her.

I’ve encouraged myself, family and friends, to stay positive, and to maintain a sense of togetherness — even though we are isolated from each other, we maintain contact and community by staying in touch online. Staying positive impacts all of us in the office, family, neighbourhood, community and country — so we need to keep seeing the positive in these hard times. And I am grateful that I now have time to write for “our better world” and read my books. All the world has one voice now, let’s use it to strengthen each other and send love. My reflection for 2020 is to face the future with a healthy mind, body and soul. This will pass and we will survive. Hugs and love from Indonesia.

_{Photo by Liv Bruce on Unsplash}

1 APRIL 2020

When kindness bridges divides

By Hasan, Founder, Al-Hasan Volunteer Network, Malaysia

During this crisis, everyone is suffering, even our donors. And the communities who usually are suffering the most, suffer more. Not just refugees, but Malaysians who are low income, single mothers and so on. But when we asked our refugees if they wanted to volunteer and cook free meals for frontline healthcare workers, the response was amazing.

This initiative is organised together with Beyond Borders Malaysia. Each day, a different chef will volunteer to cook and we bring to government hospitals to distribute to healthcare workers. We want to show that refugees can contribute and show appreciation during this time.

After we shared the initiative it went viral, and 99 per cent of the comments were positive, with Malaysians thanking the refugees. I have never seen this before...usually when you see news on refugees, most comments are negative. But because of this initiative, Malaysians are thanking refugees and saying that refugees are part of their community, and when they used the hashtag #kitajagakita, they included refugees.

When I shared the initiative with the refugee community, I was really scared that no one would participate. But on the first day, we got 10 chefs. Most chefs are happy to participate using their own money. But we managed to raise about RM1,500 (US$340) that will be given to needy families to get groceries. I know the chefs are also struggling, but when they had the chance to give back, they did. I'm really happy to see that.

_{Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash}

1 APRIL 2020

Mountain girl unleashed

By Gladys, Content Creator, Philippines

I grew up in a mountainous area in the Philippines, where fast food is an impossible option. My parents insisted that root crops like camote (sweet potato) and saging saba (banana) are considered our merienda, or snacks. Sometimes, they can be meal too!

Fast forward to today, lockdown in the city far from the countryside made me unleash my inner mountain girl again.

As I refuse to go to the grocers because of longer queues and the idea of being in a closed building just feeds my anxiety about this virus, I decided to buy my supplies in small local shops near my neighbourhood. Most of them sell bread, vegetables, fish, meat, and fruits — it’s like a healthy-food survival starter pack! I am so happy that I get to enjoy eating my favourite childhood snacks again and somehow help the local sellers too in this time of crisis. I believe that the farmers and local sellers have always been our frontliners, especially in this situation and I am just so grateful for them.

Finally, times like this I am thankful for my parents for the memories and my childhood experiences for being a handy 'survival kit' for life!

Now, time to eat that boiled saging saba! Yum!

_{Photo by Jason Blackeye on Unsplash}

Battling compassion fatigue: The story behind #braveheartph

By Melissa, Physician, Philippines

As a psychiatrist, I know how difficult it is for healthcare workers to remain hopeful in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic. On March 16, when Luzon was quarantined, my sister approached me about a food drive that her friend, Alyson Yap, had started. The concept was simple — sending home-cooked meals to hospital frontliners — so I volunteered to coordinate delivery for hospitals in Manila. At the same time, I asked my nephews to make drawings to be included with the meals.

After the first day of the food drive, I was astonished to see photos of the drawings online. It turned out that the frontliners had saved them because these meant as much to them as the food we sent. Inspired by this, I reached out to local calligraphers for help in illustrating messages for the frontliners. Soon, my inbox was flooded with their contributions of beauty and hope. Realisation struck — the artists' work deserved a wider scope, and more healthcare workers deserved to feel their support.

Two days after the food drive began, @braveheartphl was launched to give everyone a chance to send their messages of support. Instructions were simple — everyone was encouraged to upload photos of their work on social media and tag #braveheartph.

Why #braveheartph? While searching for inspirational messages for frontliners, I connected with Wally Tham, who launched #braveheartSG. Together, we decided that using a common name would show our countries’ united support for our frontliners. We hope that other countries can start their own braveheart movements so that we can beat compassion fatigue on the frontline. After all, this is a battle that frontliners worldwide are fighting.

To our Filipino artists and frontliners, thank you 3,000x. We will heal as one.

Selflessness comes in the form of a knock on my door

By Nina, Production Manager, Philippines

Let me tell you about my landlord and neighbour, Ms Gina Tumibay. A lady with bright eyes, a ready smile and close-cropped hair, Ms Gina is a retired Major (Philippine Marines) and a cancer survivor with a no-nonsense style.

I moved in last January.

Mid-January there was talk of a new virus, but that was far away in China.

March sets in.  So did COVID-19.

One day, I get a knock on the door.  It’s Ms Gina with a face mask on. True to form she asks how I am doing and if I had enough to eat that day. Ms Gina pulls from behind her three pairs of gloves, three face masks and a bag of sweet biscuits. “This isn’t much, but it will help.”  I’m speechless, because everyone else was hoarding masks, protective gloves. The biscuits were the cherry on the sundae.

The community quarantine kept us indoors. Quarantine passes allow only one person per household to go out to buy necessities. Suspended mass transportation makes it nearly impossible to go anywhere. Panic buying means hour-long lines if you’re lucky enough to get most of the items you need. 

Selflessness comes in the form of a knock on my door.

One day heralds biko (sweet rice cake), another day lumpiang sariwa (fresh vegetable rolls). And always with the parting words: “Do you need anything? I might have something.”

My lunch the other day was courtesy of Ms Gina’s kitchen, kare-kare (oxtail peanut sauce stew). Today, baked macaroni.

Who is this lady whose only known ties to me is a contract of lease?

I find out — the masks, the gloves, the food — she does this for all her tenants.

True to form Ms Gina doesn’t have to. But she does anyway.

_{Photo by Grant Durr on Unsplash}

Doing what we can with what we have

By Rachelle, Teacher, Philippines

I am a public school teacher and a single parent. I have two kids aged seven and five-and-a-half years old. Being the sole breadwinner is not easy in the midst of this pandemic crisis. But this hasn't stopped me from extending my help and showing compassion to those who are close to my heart.

By giving and sharing what I have, like some cash, groceries and food, to feed them and their families. I also tell them not to be afraid because God's love and mercy are with us. I suggest that they help those in need even in simple and small ways.

We don't need to be rich to help other people, just having a big heart can be enough. I know how happy I am to share what I have and let people in need know they aren't alone. Giving without expecting anything in return creates the best feeling.

I have a motto, 'Tulong Ko, Ipasa Mo'. It means that whenever you get the chance, whatever help you have been given, please [pay it forward] in the simplest way.

Never hesitate to help the poor, every privilege to serve is like an open heart that gives unconditional love to humanity. Spread positivity, love and hope.

1 APRIL 2020

Frontline heroes

By Saleemah, Founder, New Life Stories, Singapore

This is Siti who cleans the street in my area just after our early morning chat. For the past four years, she leaves her house in Johor at 4am to start work at 7am everyday.

Thankfully, her employer, Veolia, is a responsible company. They are providing her with free accommodation from today till 1 April so she won't have to lose two weeks salary.

At 10am that day (when the lockdown was announced in Malaysia), Siti went home to pack her clothes, some home cooking and to make alternative care plans for her children while she's away.

It is people like Siti who makes the two hours commute door-to-door from across the Causeway just to keep our Singapore streets clean.

I am grateful for Siti and the other Malaysians who make the long commute each day, every day. And now, once again, they are making a sacrifice. They are sacrificing their time with their children in Johor for two weeks so that they could stay in Singapore to continue their work.

_{Photo by Saleemah Ismail}

Connecting in the check-out line

By Shihui, Programme Director, Common Ground Singapore

Was at the supermarket queuing to pay for my weekly groceries. It’s crowded, but orderly. Since lines were super long, we were people-watching. Suddenly, the elderly gentleman behind me asks, “Girl ah, where you get the eggs?” I offered to help him get a tray, so he doesn’t lose his precious place at the check-out.

When I returned, he shared that he had a bottle of oil, two packets of sugar, two packets of milk powder, but was worried because he wanted rice, and the outlet we are at hadn't been restocked yet. I happily offered to look (since there was nothing to do anyway).

When I got back from checking, I reported that there was organic brown rice for $5.50 (US$3.80) per kg! But his face fell, and he mumbled something about it being expensive.

Given his age (nearly 80!), and his being alone made me concerned for him. I told him to wait, and would check the shelves again.

I found a pack of 1kg basmati rice! That should tide him over to next restocking.

I ran back to uncle, and offered to belanja [treat] him! His face lit up, and he smiled super widely.

No matter where we are, helping and connecting to one another is more possible than we think! Stay strong Singapore.

Funny update: On the bus ride home, the husband told me that when I was hunting for rice to bring to uncle, the uncle had told him he had many kids and grandkids!

Lesson learnt: A person mumbling something is expensive doesn’t mean they can’t afford it. And don’t jump to conclusions in the first 10 seconds (I thought he was a senior living alone with no help). We must observe, ask questions and act when the facts are in. Especially helpful in this current situation. Excuse me while I go off and feel sheepishly embarrassed!

_{Photo by Liviu Florescu on Unsplash}